*TOPIC:- BEING TOO CHOOSY*
"He is not my Spec."
"She is not my Type
"Bola is accommodating, Godly and decent. But, she has a K-leg."
"Funmi has a lovely physical features. She is outspoken. But, she is overambitious. The babe no go submit."
"Nkech is beautiful and a great cook. But, she is short."
Well done ooo... Mr Creator of women.?
"Chinedu is a family-oriented man. He is caring but, can't construct a simple sentence in English."
"Bayo is cute and God loving. He is even outspoken and exposed. But, he can't pray for 5hours at a stretch. He doesn't attend vigils and camp meetings.
"Boye is my dream man. He has everything I desire in a man. But, he lacks a good dress sense and has a body odour."
Well done ma. The Maker of perfect men.?
All these shouting of he is not my spec. She is not my type. Na eem make Mr Joshua remained single until he clocked 40years. Sis Nkechi never see her spec at 38years.
Is it a sin to have a Spec? Not at all!
Everyone definitely has qualities they desire in a partner. However, wisdom requires that you weigh your decisions and subject them to the will of God. It's also important to note that, there's no perfect person anywhere. E no dey.?
The questions you should ask are; "Does this person aligns with God's will for my life?" "Can this person grow into what I desire?" "Is he/she teachable?" "Does our core values aligns?"...
It's time to stop all those SPEC and TYPE talks before you become a negative SPECIMEN.?
Did I shattered any table???♂️I doubt it.
I come in peace.?♂️To your relationship success.